A third of your office has been laid off. How do you stay calm and carry the load?

This year, countless Australians have walked into their offices and immediately sensed that something wasn’t quite right

A third of your office has been laid off. How do you stay calm and carry the load?

Desks sit empty. Monitors stay dark. The usual hum of keyboards and corridor chatter has disappeared, replaced by a silence that makes you wonder if you’ve shown up on the wrong day.

It’s confronting, but it’s no longer unusual.

Major restructures are reshaping organisations, with staff already reporting significant psychological strain.

And while the focus rightly sits on those who leave, far less attention is paid to those who stay. They’re the ones who feel relieved they still have a job, but at the same time, the creep of the implications of a depleted team is setting in.

Their responsibilities are already multiplying, their work-life balance is evaporating, and their workplace culture seems to have packed up its desk and left without saying goodbye.

You’re left wondering how you’re meant to keep calm and carry the load - without silently collapsing under it.

Keeping your job might mean you inherit another

Surviving a restructure is not the same as being untouched by it.

For those who remain, the pressure often intensifies: fewer people, thinner support, operational gaps, and a quiet expectation that output will stay the same, or even improve, despite fundamentally altered conditions.

While staff might be reassured that their workload will remain the same, the unspoken implication is usually otherwise. It’s a bit like saying things are “getting a bit warm” while standing in a burning house.

More work is never just more work; it’s an increased load in every sense of the term.

There’s an emotional load that comes with adjusting to missing colleagues, navigating guilt or relief you didn’t ask for, and trying to feel stable in an environment that changed overnight.

There’s a cognitive load that builds as you absorb knowledge that walked out the door, learn unfamiliar systems on the fly, and hit decision fatigue far earlier than you used to.

And then there’s the actual workload, because tasks and responsibilities don’t just magically disappear when headcount does, and performance expectations have a funny habit of remaining exactly where they were… or steadily increasing.

But here’s what they don’t tell you: You don’t actually have to shoulder the burden handed down by the corporate powers that be. You can protect your energy, your productivity, and your sanity, even when it feels like you’re being asked to keep the plates spinning after half the circus has gone home.

Here’s how to stay steady without sacrificing yourself in the process.

1. Acknowledge the limits of your capacity

If no one has told you this recently, let me be the one to break it to you: You are one person, not a secret organisational workaround for multiple full-time roles.

Accepting this isn’t a failure of resilience; it’s a basic reality check. Capacity limits aren’t personal shortcomings, no matter how much LinkedIn might suggest otherwise. They’re organisational facts. Recognising your limits early reduces unnecessary pressure and prevents you from becoming the person everyone leans on, but no one remembers to thank.

2. Establish boundaries early and manage up

Corporate restructures have an annoying cousin: unrealistic expectations.

And just like the second cousin who turns up to the family BBQ empty-handed, parks himself next to the esky and starts helping himself to everyone else’s drinks, these expectations slip in and make themselves very comfortable.

By the time you notice, your beers are gone, your wallet’s out and you’re thinking, hang on… when did I agree to this?

That’s why boundaries matter. Because once you absorb unrealistic expectations, they don’t stay temporary; they harden into precedent.

What started as ‘just helping out’ becomes the unspoken baseline, and suddenly you’re the one holding the can, wondering how this became your ongoing responsibility.

This is the window to be clear, calm, and realistic about what’s actually possible for you by saying things like:

“I can take this on. What should we deprioritise?”

“This won’t be possible within my current capacity.”

“Here’s what I can deliver sustainably, and here’s what needs to wait.”

Boundaries aren’t resistance, laziness, or evidence that you’re ‘not a team player’. They’re how you protect your energy so you can keep contributing, instead of quietly burning out while everyone assumes you’re fine with refilling the esky.

3. Make prioritisation visible and shared

Hidden overload thrives in ambiguity, but transparency is its natural predator.

Make sure you have the prioritisation conversation and get your team to openly agree on what must be done, what can wait, and what no longer fits within current capacity.

Some tasks can pause. Some can stop entirely. Trust me, the organisation will live to see another day. Contrary to popular belief, not everything is mission-critical.

4. Manage your energy, not just your time

Human performance isn’t linear. And no amount of colour-coded calendar wizardry will save you if your nervous system is running on fumes.

Your energy needs to be fed and taken care of, too. Otherwise, you will start to feel like the human embodiment of that sad plant in the corner of the office that technically isn’t dead, but definitely isn’t thriving.

Reset your foundation with the Triple M method:

  • 5 minutes of Mindfulness - breathing, stillness or quiet time outside
  • 5 minutes of Movement - walking, stretching, reminding your body it still exists
  • 5 minutes of Me Talk - journaling, gratitude, or gently upgrading your internal commentary

Fifteen minutes a day won’t undo the stress of a restructure, but it can set a baseline of self-care to help you make better decisions.

Restructures are dreadfully disruptive to organisations.  They shake identity, confidence and trust, even for those who remain employed. But while your workplace may feel unfamiliar right now, the most important thing to remember is that you don’t have to become unrecognisable to survive it.

Nick Orchard is the founder of Uncut Coaching and The Big Refresh

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